Nice guys get nice girls !!
I heard this phrase many a times.........BUT never heard the phrase.....Nice GIrls get Nice guys.... antey...does this mean ..it is a rarity?? or.... probably...bcos there's still time to prove the latter statement..!!
My Left foot!!!!
assala nannu aduguthey...!!
The stmt shld be rephrased as guys get to chooose nicccee girls.... whereas girls dont always get u choose guys....nice guys ...tho dhooooooor ki baath hain.....
My aunts neighbour's had a 30yr old son...who is still a bachelor... and they were damn worried abt him....''I wonder y!!??''
So probably they were looking [read 'hunting']for matches....God knws...for how long they have been doing this!!
One unfortunate day,my mom happ to go to my aunts place.... this worried neighbour [adhe tht bachelor's mom] came home...and strtd off one useless conversation..."maa abbayi ki choostunaamu andi...ento mari.....assala emi nachatledhu...blah blah...and shit....humus...What not..."
both my mom n aunt were literally yawning......!
but this lady did not stop!!...until suddenly she told smthng...tht totally shook the earth beneath thm...
She said : "meeru maa vaalu ayyi untey ...mee ammayilu nee memu adige vaalam maa abbayi ki"...
Darn it !! what she meant was ... her prblm was "caste!"...and she did nt mind d age gap...
sickkkkkkkk female!!
this happ 3-4 months bfre today...and today was tht so calld "eligible bachelor's marriage"
neither me nor my sis knew abt this whole sick incident....
when were abt to leave d wedding hall....
tht same lady came...she was beaming...as if some 100 bulbs were shining bhind her!!
"bhojanam ayyindha....oh mee pillalu kooda vacharaa...ammayi...mee ammagaru tho antunna... meeru maa caste aithe...maa abbayi ki mimalni...adigey pani...!"
Me n my sis ...were grinding our teeth....when we were kids....we used to call him 'uncle'
I just cldnt stop myself...and i said : "aunty...even if we were of d same caste.... we wldnt have agreed.....good tht u got ur guy married...otherwise he wld have to wait for anther 10 yrs...for a girl of ur same caste"
fortunately for her...she cldnt hear me clearly....!!
huh!!!!!!
We left dat place immidiately!!!!
PAPPU-CHAARU vandatam NERCHUKO!!
.......Done with engg.... just like any other 20 yr old person ... i'm a bit confused abt my future too...and d Question...which makes u grow wild is ....ofcos there may b many Q's....but the Q which tops d list is :
"wow!! done with studies...!...Graduated anmaaata...so WHATS NEXT??"
adhe girls aithe...inko tikkaregeey Q :
" chaduvu aiypoyindhu...pelli ki rdy anmaata...elanti abbayi kavaala
amma ?"
My foot!!!!!!!! huh!!
konthamandhi ki aa abbayi choice kooda undadhu emo!! phew!!
So y am i writing all this is....bcos today i prepared smthng calld 'pappu-charu....similar to sambhar'!!
oh so it turned out to b a disaster anukunnara??
NOOPE!!!!!!! CHAAALA baaga vachindhi!
I was patting myself.....ayyada!! i cook so well ani!!
assala vishyam taravaata telisindhi......nenu chesina curry ki oh range lo "make over" jarigindhi ani!!! phew!!
As im too lucky...i had too few ppl @ home tht day... my grnd mom...her sister....mom ...my sis...my aunt..inka endukuley!!
My granny was d first[luccccky] one to taste it....she grew so wild.... anthe inka.....start......."20 yrs pillavi.....pappu chaaru raadha?? "
Me:[i was murmuring to myslef]"damn it....so what i know dosa,omlette,idly...i prepare first class 'TEA'.... and coffee...oka sari pappu charu ki...intha tittala...."patient as always"......i kept hearing all tht my granny was telling[read scolding] me....
she told me abt her days...when she strtd cooking @ d age of 13 itself!!...'
wow ...thts quite a record' i thgt to myself!!
and she told me how her grnd father appreciated her....
gosh what am i typing...my grnd moms grnd dad aa!!
kevvvvv!!
of cos simultaneously my mom n aunt were making full use of my other ear by repeating d whole process of cooking pappu chaaru...
anyways...i kept hearing[nt listening mind u!!].....whatever granny said..... till she said...repu poduna pelli ayyaka.. aa vachevaadu........L I K E H E L L!!!!!!
anthe i cld no longer Ctrl my self...."ammaamma........aaagh"!!
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some blah blah went on for 5-10min... and tht's it.......
i told her.... the pappu i made was so gudd...tht they cld modify it and make it taste good...adhi appreciate cheyakunda....huh!!
of cos...i cldnt stop telling they were gudd @ modifying it too... [:P]!! ...by the time i sat to have my lunch...the first thing i ate was pappu charu... trust me....it was gudddddddd..........probably....bcos i prepd itt...it tasted so gudd... or did it taste gudd.. bcos of d modifications??!!
chuckles!!!!!! who says "TOO MANY COOKS SPOIL THE BROTH..aka...pappu charu!!"!!! LOL!!
Life's Little Instruction Book :-)
· Have a firm handshake.
· Look people in the eye.
· Sing in the shower.
· Own a great stereo system.
· If in a fight, hit first and hit hard.
· Keep secrets.
· Never give up on anybody.
Miracles happen everyday.
· Always accept an outstretched hand.
· Be brave. Even if you're not, pretend to be. No one can tell the difference.
· Whistle.
· Avoid sarcastic remarks.
· Choose your life's mate carefully. From this one decision will come 90 per cent of all your happiness or misery.
· Make it a habit to do nice things for people who will never find out.
· Lend only those books you never care to see again.
· Never deprive someone of hope; it might be all that they have.
· When playing games with ! children, let them win.
· Give people a second chance, but not a third.
· Be romantic.
· Become the most positive and enthusiastic person you know.
· Loosen up. Relax. Except for rare life-and-death matters, nothing is as important as it first seems.
· Don't allow the phone to interrupt important moments. It's there for your convenience, not the caller's.
· Be a good loser.
· Be a good winner.
· Think twice before burdening a friend with a secret.
· When someone hugs you, let them be the first to let go.
· Be modest. A lot was accomplished before you were born.
· Keep it simple.
· Beware of the person who has nothing to lose.
· Don't burn bridges. You'll be surprised how many times you have to cross the same river.
· Live your life so that your epitaph could read, No Regrets
· Be bold and courageous. When you look back on life, you'll regret the things you didn't do more than the one's you did.
· Never waste an opportunity to tell someone you love them.
· Remember no one makes it alone. Have a grateful heart and be quick to acknowledge those who helped you.
· Take charge of your attitude. Don't let someone else choose it for you.
· Visit friends and relatives when they are in hospital; you need only stay a few minutes.
· Begin each day with some of your favorite music.
· Once in a while, take the scenic route.
· Send a lot of Valentine cards. Sign them, 'Someone who thinks you're terrific.'
· Answer the phone with enthusiasm and energy in your voice.
· Keep a note pad and pencil on your bed-side table. Million-dollar ideas sometimes strike at 3 a.m.
· Show respect for everyone who works for a living, regardless of how trivial their job.
· Send your loved ones flowers. Think of a reason later.
· Make someone's day by paying the toll for the person in the car behind you.
· Become someone's hero.
· Marry only for love.
· Count your blessings.
· Compliment the meal when you're a guest in someone's home.
· Wave at the children on a school bus.
· Remember that 80 per cent of the success in any job is based on your ability to deal with people.
· Don't expect life to be fair.
- What helps people, helps business.No matter how much pressure you feel at work, if you could find ways to relax for at least five minutes every hour, you'd be more productive.
- Great achievement is usually born of great sacrifice, and is nevër the result of selfishness.
- Everything becomes a little different as soon as it is spoken out loud.
- Don't hold something in your arms that you could nevër hold in your heart.
- Marriage has no guarantees. If that's what you're looking for, go live with a car battery.
- A man is not old until regrets take the place of dreams.
- There is nothing so useless as doing efficiently that which should not be done at all.
- Things don't turn up in this world until somebody turns them up.
- If you don't like something, change it. If you can't change it, change your attitude. Don't complain.
- Kindness can become its own motive. We are made kind by being kind.
- The human brain must continue to frame the problems for the electronic machine to solve.
- Confidence is the most important single factor in this game, and no matter how great your natural talent, there is only one way to obtain and sustain it: work.
- The indispensable first step to getting the things you want out of life is this: decide what you want.
- Failure is unimportant. It takes courage to make a fool of yourself.
- A sad soul can kill you quicker than a germ.
- To reach a great height a person needs to have great depth.
- My best friend is the one who brings out the best in me.
- Love me when I least deserve it, because that's when I really need it.
- Without humility there can be no humanity.
- A good conscience is a continual Christmas.
- Laughter is the sun that drives winter from the human face.
- The important thing is not to stop questioning.
- Every closed eye is not sleeping, and every open eye is not seeing.
- A little simplification would be the first step toward rational living,I think.
- A cynic is a man who knows the price of everything and the value of nothing.
- It is easier to go down a hill than up, but the view is from the top.
- What is a friend? A single soul dwelling in two bodies.
- He who is not courageous enough to take risks will accomplish nothing in life.
- We have too many high-sounding words, and too few actions that correspond with them.
THE LESSONS MY LIFE TAUGHT ME..
LIFE- Living in Freedom an Enquiry.....Thats how I define my life!!!
The word LIFE may mean many things to many people,for me it is a gift by the almighty.It's a gift given to utilise it in all means and to the best possible.Every second,minute and day is special and unique.Life means experincing every moment which can be happy/sad/exciting/confusing and many more.Life is mainly filled with experiences, and every experience teaches something.How we face our life and the experiences and what is the lesson we learn from it,is what makes a "difference" to our
lives!
Life has many stages:childhood,adolscence,old age and finally till our last breath.At every stage of life we are bound to commit mistakes and learn few lessons.For eg: when a child is young,he/she is taught to respect elders.During adoscence,children are adviced to stay away from things which may lead them to a wrong path and so on.Every stage we keep learning.Learning is one such stage in life which has NO END.I learnt many lessons in life,which helped me towards a better living.
The two most important things which keep life moving are: 'FAITH' and 'HOPE'!! The other factors which add to them are CONFIDENCE,DEDICATION AND RESPECT for yourself and others.Time and again,these factors have proven to be the basis for my success in many events in my life.There were many incidents in life,which were unpleasent and unexpected,but the lessons which i chose to learn from them made me a stronger person.
Finally to conclude,all I can say is: As common mortals we cannot avoid committing mistakes BUT we can definetely tell ourselves not to repeat the same mistake.Learning not only from our mistakes but also from others makes a person reach the ladder of success sooner and faster and there by a WISE individual!
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