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Nice guys get nice girls !!
I heard this phrase many a times.........BUT never heard the phrase.....Nice GIrls get Nice guys.... antey...does this mean ..it is a rarity?? or.... probably...bcos there's still time to prove the latter statement..!!
My Left foot!!!!
assala nannu aduguthey...!!
The stmt shld be rephrased as guys get to chooose nicccee girls.... whereas girls dont always get u choose guys....nice guys ...tho dhooooooor ki baath hain.....
My aunts neighbour's had a 30yr old son...who is still a bachelor... and they were damn worried abt him....''I wonder y!!??''
So probably they were looking [read 'hunting']for matches....God knws...for how long they have been doing this!!
One unfortunate day,my mom happ to go to my aunts place.... this worried neighbour [adhe tht bachelor's mom] came home...and strtd off one useless conversation..."maa abbayi ki choostunaamu andi...ento mari.....assala emi nachatledhu...blah blah...and shit....humus...What not..."
both my mom n aunt were literally yawning......!
but this lady did not stop!!...until suddenly she told smthng...tht totally shook the earth beneath thm...
She said : "meeru maa vaalu ayyi untey ...mee ammayilu nee memu adige vaalam maa abbayi ki"...
Darn it !! what she meant was ... her prblm was "caste!"...and she did nt mind d age gap...
sickkkkkkkk female!!
this happ 3-4 months bfre today...and today was tht so calld "eligible bachelor's marriage"
neither me nor my sis knew abt this whole sick incident....
when were abt to leave d wedding hall....
tht same lady came...she was beaming...as if some 100 bulbs were shining bhind her!!
"bhojanam ayyindha....oh mee pillalu kooda vacharaa...ammayi...mee ammagaru tho antunna... meeru maa caste aithe...maa abbayi ki mimalni...adigey pani...!"
Me n my sis ...were grinding our teeth....when we were kids....we used to call him 'uncle'
I just cldnt stop myself...and i said : "aunty...even if we were of d same caste.... we wldnt have agreed.....good tht u got ur guy married...otherwise he wld have to wait for anther 10 yrs...for a girl of ur same caste"
fortunately for her...she cldnt hear me clearly....!!
huh!!!!!!
We left dat place immidiately!!!!
7 comments:
Lets hope for d best!!
INSHALLAH!
Sindhu,
Nice Writeup But I don't agree completely with about 'Nice ...' . In this current generation , parents are giving enough importance to girls's priorities and interests. Don't you think??
Sapna,
You are right to certain extent about caste ,but there is a reason why our elders emphasise on caste.I personally seen my friends who married from difference caste and facing some problem in adjusting with in-laws because of difference in eating habits , cultural issues , devotional aspects etc etc..
On the other hand, If you like /love someone ,then caste shouldn't be a problem ,but you are searching for a bride / groom, then going on a caste basis is not wrong.
well ya ...personal opinions may differ!
anyways...thx fr ur time ...by reading my blog
@ sriniihere
yes...undbtedly...im a gud girl!
but tell me ...how good is gud...and how bad is bad??
don u worry about nice guys gettin nice girls., first thing., the guys side says that., n the girls side says the other way around., lite lo ;) still they're sayin 'nice' about both of them rite ?
comin to aunty talks., everybody knows the drill., in thru an yr., out thru the other., woh bhi lite lene ka.,
the caste thing., my god ! when will india get over it !? good that u answered back n sad that she didnt get to hear it.,
haha kk!
kadhaaa..!! this caste nonsense!!
anyways...thx for ur time in writing d comment!
every one wants the best for their children. Probably u n ur sis
are the ones she thought. b happy abt it and smile off for her innocence rather than grinding ur teeth and putting yourself in the same boat like her!! Well it takes some maturity. Being considerate to others ignorance is not easy!!!
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